Tuesday, January 09, 2007

Resolutions - Part 3

I've been working on this for days. I come up with something, I mull it over, make changes and then on to the next thing.

I've mulled it over enough to share with you some of what I've come up with.

So, here's the beginning of trying to figure out how to specifically Honor myself: It makes sense to me to figure out the categories of my life and look at them for ways I honor or dishonor myself in that category.

And the Categories are:

  • Fitness & Health
  • Romance & Sexuality
  • Financial Freedom
  • Parenting
  • Spirituality
  • Immediate Family
  • Friends & Family of Origin
  • ? (I don’t know what to call this category)

My first thought for the name of “? (I don’t know what to call this category)” was ME. Then I realized that I AM ALL of the categories listed. So, this last one is really just a category to remind me to pamper myself, to baby myself, to remember to enjoy myself. In essence - to honor myself.

I'm not going to post what I came up with when I looked at each of the categories in relation to honoring myself. What I will write was that it was a very enlightening process. I'm so glad I did it and I recommend anyone looking for this type of clarity to do the same.

I found out that I honor myself more than I thought.

I found out that the areas I don't honor myself are easily rectified.


After doing this I now have a list of things I can do under each of those categories that will help me to know that I do honor me. And when I start honoring me others will too.

Again I'm not going to share each of these activities. What I will share is the one I find the most fun:

Category: ? (I don’t know what to call this category)
During one of Z's naps per week I will do one or more of the following: facial, nails, read a novel, sleep, play a game or something else I find that's fun.

Phew! I'm so glad I finally finished this part of the process and now I can put it in action.